Dear Faithfuls n Blog fam,
Yes, I am here!
How av we been? I really really apologize (bended knees fo' realz) for not putting any post up for some weeks now......your gurl has been here n there, doing all sorts.....haven't even been able to visit blogs I follow like I would want to for a bit naw.....its not even funny! I have missed you all! Here's hoping it gets better........
Fountain Flows is one year old this month! :D Should do a post to celebrate you guyz for believing n cheering on FF, she is indeed grateful for your support so far.....its been a very fulfilling n interesting blogging year n I look forward to greater thingz!
The Nigerian Blogger Awards is on! I have done my nominations for blogs that fit different categories. To do the same, visit the nomination page and vote for your fav blogs.......I hope I am one of 'em :)
This is kinda different from my usual posts n probably the shortest I have ever written.....ha ha, but I just didn't want to stay away till i can write a proper one......its been long enough really :(
Nevertheless, a quick one:
As usual, (the fb pelzin that I am) i started a debate about kissing n pre-marital sex. God has called every believer to keep the bed undefiled i.e avoid pre-marital sex. Now, for those who want to avoid pre-marital sex, is it safe to kiss? Can you handle kissing without thinking about sex, touching n caressing? Is sex only about the act or its more about what goes on in your mind even before the act?
I look forward to your engaging responses as always.
Till I come your way soon.....yes, real soon, do have a wonderful rest of the week!
Muchos Lovos!
10 comments:
Welcome back..
Congrats in advance on your one year blogversary.
Re: Debate question.
To each his own. Some ppl can't handle is so total abstinence is always best. Some others can kiss and end there...so I wouldn't say the answer is in black and white but that's just my opinion.
Welcome back sister...glad to hear all is well... & congratulobia on your one year blogsversary :D
i like this topic becox it has many 'faces' to it.
If you want to avoid pre-marital sex.....then avoid ANYTHING that would led to it! Kissing MIGHT lead to fondling, rubbing against each other, petting or patting ....even fingering & sucking...all in the name that no SEX was had!
The way i understand it from the bible context, is that: THE COUPLE SHOULD NOT SEE EACH OTHER NAKEDNESS UNTIL ON THEIR WEDDING NIGHT,,,,,,,, but SOME would indulge in oral sex & still claim they have not indulged in pre-marital sex since sex is defined by the dictionary as an act of INTER-COURSE which entails penetration of the penis into the vagina btw 2 people or more sef!... so since that didn't occur...one can claim not to be involved in pre-marital sex!
YOU SEE THE PALAVER?.....but the truth is that, WE KNOW WHAT IS OBTAINABLE BUT TO JUSTIFY OUR SINFUL WAYS, WE FIND EXCUSES & PLAY THE DEVIL'S ADVOCATE...but the LAW says: KEEP THE MARRIAGE BED UNDEFILED! shikena. IF YOU WANT TO F*** , THEN DO IT, IF NOT, ABSTAIN COMPLETELY! NO HALF MEASURES WITH GOD..my 2 kobo.
i completely second Ibhade. May God help you keep yourself if that ids your will
Good to know you are back.Congrats on your one yr blogversary *blowing trumpet*
about the debate question.i will just read comments cos i want to know about it too :D
interesting POV from ibhade and H
welcome back and congrats on ur anniversary. Trust ibhade to dissect this topic naw!!!
This is me reading with excitement! Welcome back, sis!
Hmmm...very controversial topic you got here...but I think Il ove Ibhade's dissection..lolz
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@H.....tx! I av missed ur blog oh :) Hmmn, u do sound like a friend of mine....exactly what she said, 'the ans is not in black n white'.......true perhaps....:)
@Madam IB......tx so much :) and ure so right. Sex isnt just about the act......its has more to do with the mind....so, we may still have our hymen intact but can we really say we are virgins? *food for thot.
I so agree with ur stand point. Thank u for bringing it!
@doll.....Tx :)
@NikkiSho......tx hun! I av missed my make-up lessons :)
@Gee......yes oh, trust madam IB! Ha ha! Tx for following:)
@Dayor.....really dicey innit? Tx for following :)
Like Ibhade said, no half measures. It starts with the mind though people might have thoughts without going ahead with it. If one has chosen abstinence then one must focus the mind away from anything about sex and the preambles to it.
@Naijalines.........True words- 'to focus the mind away from anything about sex and the preambles to it'......thats the true abstinence!
Tx ma :)
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